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LMFT, LCMFT

Barry Plumlee, LMFT, LCMFT

  • Experience21 years
  • LocationMissouri
  • Focus areasADHD, Stress and Anxiety, and Family
  • Therapy approachesClient-Centered Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
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About Barry

Barry Plumlee is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 21 years of clinical experience working across Missouri, Kansas, and Oklahoma.

Background and approach

He brings a compassionate, individualized approach to common struggles such as stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, relationship difficulties, grief, mood disorders, sleep problems, ADHD, addictions, and self-esteem concerns. His background includes extensive work in community mental health and family services, which informs his comfort addressing complex family dynamics and co-occurring challenges.

Therapeutic work with Barry centers on collaboration and respect, blending client-centered listening with evidence-based techniques drawn from cognitive behavioral and psychodynamic traditions, as well as motivational interviewing and the Gottman Method when relationship work is appropriate. He helps clients develop practical coping strategies, improve communication, and process difficult experiences while tailoring interventions to individual needs and goals.

Barry maintains primarily evening availability and offers sessions in several online formats to accommodate varied schedules.

Practical approaches for online therapy and collaboration

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on creating a respectful, nonjudgmental space where the therapist listens deeply and follows the client's lead; this approach helps people clarify values, feel heard, and build self-directed solutions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) targets unhelpful thoughts and behaviors through structured techniques such as skill-building, thought records, and behavioral experiments, making it useful for anxiety, depression, and stress-related problems. The Gottman Method offers practical, research-informed skills for improving communication and managing conflict when relationship issues are a primary concern.

Deciding which approach to use is part of the therapeutic process. The therapist works collaboratively with each person to identify goals, assess needs, and try methods that fit their preferences and progress. That collaborative stance helps tailor interventions and adjust strategies as work unfolds.

Online therapy here is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to provide flexibility for different lifestyles and schedules. These options make it easier to attend sessions during evening hours or on Sundays, reduce travel time, and allow consistent contact for skill practice and check-ins. Licensed professionals aim to make care accessible and adaptable while supporting practical, goal-oriented work.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist address?
Barry supports people facing a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, relationship problems, addictions, grief, mood disorders such as depression and bipolar, sleep difficulties, ADHD, anger, and self-esteem challenges.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
His style is collaborative and respectful, emphasizing understanding and a tailored plan for each person. He blends active listening with practical strategies to help clients meet their stated goals.
What is his professional background?
He brings 21 years of experience and has worked extensively in community mental health and children and family services, in addition to adult and marital issues.
What credentials and location details are provided?
He holds LMFT and LCMFT credentials with license details MO LMFT 2017030440 and KS LCMFT LCMFT 703, and practices in Missouri.
Does he provide services in other languages or to international clients?
Sessions are provided in English only, and he is not currently accepting international clients.
Which session formats are available for appointments?
He offers multiple remote formats including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different preferences and schedules.
How much do sessions cost?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working together?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a session according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesADHD

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesGriefSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedImpulsivityMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

21+ years

Licensed

Oklahoma, Missouri, Kansas

Languages

English

What Barry can help with

Barry Plumlee works with clients on stress and anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, and ADHD.

Barry works with individuals and families through complex life challenges.

Barry works with stress and anxiety.

How Barry approaches therapy

Barry's clinical approaches include Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, and Systemic Therapy.

Experience and training

Barry is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Missouri, with 21 years of clinical experience.