LMFT, LCMFT
Barry Plumlee, LMFT, LCMFT
- Experience21 years
- LocationMissouri
- Focus areasADHD, Stress and Anxiety, and Family
- Therapy approachesClient-Centered Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
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About Barry
Barry Plumlee is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 21 years of clinical experience working across Missouri, Kansas, and Oklahoma.
Background and approach
He brings a compassionate, individualized approach to common struggles such as stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, relationship difficulties, grief, mood disorders, sleep problems, ADHD, addictions, and self-esteem concerns. His background includes extensive work in community mental health and family services, which informs his comfort addressing complex family dynamics and co-occurring challenges.
Therapeutic work with Barry centers on collaboration and respect, blending client-centered listening with evidence-based techniques drawn from cognitive behavioral and psychodynamic traditions, as well as motivational interviewing and the Gottman Method when relationship work is appropriate. He helps clients develop practical coping strategies, improve communication, and process difficult experiences while tailoring interventions to individual needs and goals.
Barry maintains primarily evening availability and offers sessions in several online formats to accommodate varied schedules.
Practical approaches for online therapy and collaboration
Client-Centered Therapy focuses on creating a respectful, nonjudgmental space where the therapist listens deeply and follows the client's lead; this approach helps people clarify values, feel heard, and build self-directed solutions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) targets unhelpful thoughts and behaviors through structured techniques such as skill-building, thought records, and behavioral experiments, making it useful for anxiety, depression, and stress-related problems. The Gottman Method offers practical, research-informed skills for improving communication and managing conflict when relationship issues are a primary concern.Deciding which approach to use is part of the therapeutic process. The therapist works collaboratively with each person to identify goals, assess needs, and try methods that fit their preferences and progress. That collaborative stance helps tailor interventions and adjust strategies as work unfolds.
Online therapy here is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to provide flexibility for different lifestyles and schedules. These options make it easier to attend sessions during evening hours or on Sundays, reduce travel time, and allow consistent contact for skill practice and check-ins. Licensed professionals aim to make care accessible and adaptable while supporting practical, goal-oriented work.
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Experience
21+ years
Licensed
Oklahoma, Missouri, Kansas
Languages
English
What Barry can help with
Barry Plumlee works with clients on stress and anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, and ADHD.
Barry works with individuals and families through complex life challenges.
Barry works with stress and anxiety.
How Barry approaches therapy
Barry's clinical approaches include Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, and Systemic Therapy.
Experience and training
Barry is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Missouri, with 21 years of clinical experience.