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LMHC, LPC

Diane DeRuyter, LMHC, LPC

  • Experience9 years
  • LocationNew York
  • Focus areasADHD, Stress and Anxiety, and Addictions
  • Therapy approachesAcceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Client-Centered Therapy
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About Diane

Diane DeRuyter is a licensed mental health counselor who supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, addictions, anger, self-esteem concerns, LGBT issues, family difficulties, coping with life changes, and ADHD.

Background and approach

She brings nine years of professional experience and combines empathic listening with evidence-informed techniques to help clients explore what feels most important and workable for them. Diane aims to create a nonjudgmental space where emotions and thoughts can be examined honestly and practically.

Her style blends client-centered warmth with structured interventions drawn from cognitive behavioral and acceptance-based methods, using practical skills for emotion regulation and behavior change alongside reflective, values-oriented work. Diane emphasizes collaboration and empowerment, helping clients take small, achievable steps toward goals like managing cravings, reducing anxiety, improving communication, or rebuilding a sense of purpose.

She practices in New York and communicates in English, offering a steady, supportive presence throughout the change process.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Access

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying personal values and learning practical ways to accept difficult thoughts and emotions while committing to actions that move a person toward a meaningful life. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) teaches concrete skills to identify and change unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns, which can be useful for anxiety, panic, phobias, and many stress-related problems. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers structured tools for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness and can be applied when strong emotions or impulsive behavior are present.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Diane works with clients to identify goals, preferences, and what feels most helpful, then adjusts methods over time so therapy fits each person's needs rather than forcing a single model.

Online sessions are offered via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging, providing flexibility for different schedules and communication styles. These formats make it easier to access ongoing support, practice skills between sessions, and maintain momentum while balancing work, family, and daily commitments.

Frequently asked questions

Which concerns does she commonly address?
Diane works with a range of concerns including stress, anxiety, addictions, anger, self-esteem issues, LGBT matters, family challenges, coping with life changes, and ADHD, along with related areas such as panic, phobias, and substance issues.
What is her general therapeutic style?
She blends a client-centered, nonjudgmental stance with practical strategies from evidence-based therapies, aiming to balance empathy with skill-building to support meaningful change.
How much professional experience does she have?
She has nine years of professional experience working with clients on emotional regulation, addiction-related concerns, and life transition challenges.
What credentials and location apply?
Diane holds LMHC and LPC credentials and practices in New York; her license details are NY LMHC 012871 and CO LPC LPC.0023885.
Does she offer services in other languages or internationally?
Sessions are conducted in English, and she is not accepting international clients at this time.
Which session formats are available?
She offers multiple online formats including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different communication preferences.
How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time rather than a per-session flat fee.
What steps should someone take to begin working with her?
To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a time according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCo-morbidityCommunication problemsDrug and alcohol addictionLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Licensed

New York, Colorado

Languages

English