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LICSW, LCSW

Gretchen Raring, LICSW, LCSW

  • Experience24 years
  • LocationNew Jersey
  • Focus areasADHD, Stress and Anxiety, and Relationship
  • Therapy approachesAcceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Attachment-Based Therapy
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About Gretchen

Gretchen Raring draws on 24 years of clinical experience to support people facing a wide range of life challenges, including stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, self-esteem concerns, depression, grief, addictions, trauma, and ADHD.

Background and approach

She brings a warm, collaborative stance to therapy, meeting clients where they are and tailoring care to individual needs and goals. Gretchen holds LICSW and LCSW credentials and has worked across multiple settings with diverse clinical presentations.

Her practice blends evidence-based interventions with a client-centered emphasis, combining practical tools with an empathetic relationship to foster insight and change. She helps clients develop skills for coping with life transitions, regulating emotions, improving communication, and addressing patterns that interfere with well-being.

Throughout treatment she balances validation and action, encouraging exploration of personal values while teaching strategies that support day-to-day functioning. Based in New Jersey, she offers multiple remote session formats to accommodate different schedules and preferences.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) emphasizes connecting with personal values and taking committed action even when difficult thoughts or emotions arise; it is often useful for people coping with anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors through practical skills and exercises, helping with mood regulation, sleep, and problem-solving. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) centers on understanding and reshaping emotional responses within relationships and can support work on intimacy-related issues and communication patterns.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist works together with each person to explore which methods match their goals, preferences, and experiences, and may integrate elements from different approaches to create a personalized plan that feels right for the client.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to engage in this work through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules and to continue progress when in-person meetings are impractical, while allowing licensed professionals to deliver consistent therapeutic support across different formats.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly address?
Gretchen works with a broad set of issues including stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy concerns, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, addictions, bipolar symptoms, ADHD, and related life changes.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her style is client-centered and collaborative, blending acceptance and practical strategies so clients gain insight while learning concrete skills for everyday challenges.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She brings 24 years of professional experience working in varied settings with people facing complex mental health and life issues.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds LICSW and LCSW credentials with MA LICSW LICSW124622 and ND LCSW 6418 noted, and is based in New Jersey.
Does she offer services in other languages or to international clients?
Services are provided in English, and she is not currently accepting international clients.
Which session formats are available?
Clients can meet via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on preference and scheduling.
How are costs and billing handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What steps are required to begin work together?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

24+ years

Licensed

New Jersey, Florida, Massachusetts, North Dakota, Arizona

Languages

English

What Gretchen can help with

Gretchen Raring works with clients on stress and anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, depression, and coping with life changes.

Gretchen works with teens, adults, older adults, and couples.

How Gretchen approaches therapy

Gretchen's clinical approaches include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and Psychodynamic Therapy.

Experience and training

Gretchen is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker practicing in New Jersey.