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John Shafer, LCSW

  • Experience25 years
  • LocationNew York
  • Focus areasADHD, Stress and Anxiety, and Relationship
  • Therapy approachesAcceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Client-Centered Therapy
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About John

John Shafer is an LCSW with 25 years of clinical experience, bringing a client-centered approach informed by multiple evidence-based methods.

Background and approach

He combines Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and mindfulness-informed techniques to help people cope with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, ADHD, and relationship or intimacy-related challenges. His practice emphasizes collaboration and practical skills to address everyday difficulties and complex life transitions.

Shafer trained at Syracuse University and has worked across rural, suburban, and urban settings, including school-based and community mental health programs. Over his career he has supported people across the lifespan and from diverse socioeconomic and cultural backgrounds, developing culturally sensitive ways to address gender identity and other identity-related concerns.

He offers individual, couples, and group therapy formats and uses a strengths-based, person-centered stance to tailor interventions to each person’s goals and circumstances.

Approach-Focused Online Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) emphasizes clarifying personal values and taking committed action despite difficult thoughts or feelings; it can be useful for stress, anxiety, grief, and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and shifting unhelpful thinking patterns and behaviors to reduce symptoms of depression, anxiety, and many daily challenges. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) teaches practical skills for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness and can help when strong emotions or relationship conflicts interfere with functioning.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process and is handled collaboratively. The therapist works with clients to explore which methods fit their goals, preferences, and life circumstances, adjusting techniques over time to match progress and changing needs.

Online therapy provides flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, allowing people to access consistent care from different locations and schedules. These formats support ongoing skill practice and communication between sessions, making it easier to maintain momentum while balancing work, family, and other obligations.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist address?
He works with a broad range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship and intimacy-related problems, grief, ADHD, and career or self-esteem concerns.
What is the overall therapeutic style?
The approach is collaborative and client-centered, drawing on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, CBT, DBT, and mindfulness practices to build skills and support values-driven change.
How much clinical experience does the therapist have?
He has 25 years of experience working in diverse settings including rural community mental health, school-based programs, and urban and suburban clinics.
What credentials and location are associated with this therapist?
He is an LCSW licensed in New York with license number NY LCSW 071443 and practices from New York.
Which languages are available for sessions and can international clients work with him?
Sessions are offered in English, and he is not currently accepting international clients.
What session formats are offered for remote work?
Remote formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different communication preferences.
How are fees and payment handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What is the process to begin working with him?
To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English

What John can help with

John Shafer works with clients on stress and anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and depression.

How John approaches therapy

John's clinical approaches include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Existential Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and Narrative Therapy.

Experience and training

John is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in New York, with 25 years of clinical experience.