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LCMHC

Lani Ete, LCMHC

  • Experience17 years
  • LocationUtah
  • Focus areasADHD, Stress and Anxiety, and Trauma and abuse
  • Therapy approachesAcceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Attachment-Based Therapy
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About Lani

Lani Ete is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) with 17 years of professional experience who supports people facing stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, addiction, relationship and intimacy concerns, grief, ADHD, and a broad range of emotional and life challenges.

Background and approach

She draws on a flexible, person-centered stance that weaves together evidence-based tools to address presenting problems while attending to how past and current relationship experiences shape present symptoms and patterns. Her method blends cognitive-behavioral strategies, acceptance-oriented practices, attachment-focused perspectives, and skills-based approaches so interventions are selected to fit each person’s goals.

Lani emphasizes an approachable and warm therapeutic presence intended to help clients process emotions, learn about themselves, and take an active role in directing their lives. She also asks clients to engage in work between sessions so progress can be reviewed and integrated rather than rushed.

Practicing from Utah and offering services in English, she provides care entirely online and accepts international clients. Her background includes an undergraduate psychology degree completed via distance learning and a Master’s in Mental Health Counseling earned in 2007 from the University of Phoenix, and she holds UT LCMHC 6831497-6004.

Therapeutic approaches and online care that fit your life

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify personal values and build psychological flexibility by learning to accept difficult emotions while committing to actions that align with what matters most; it can be useful for stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors through structured practices and skill-building, which is often effective for depression, anxiety, sleep problems, and addiction-related patterns.

Choosing the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and day-to-day realities with each client to determine which methods to prioritize and will adapt interventions as progress and needs evolve.

Online therapy can make consistent care more accessible by offering video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which allows scheduling flexibility and continuity across locations and time zones. These remote formats support ongoing skill practice, brief check-ins, and full sessions so clients can engage in therapy in ways that fit their routines and commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist commonly address?
She works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, bipolar symptoms, ADHD, and related challenges such as attachment and communication problems.
What is the overall therapeutic style and approach?
The approach is eclectic and client-centered, combining cognitive-behavioral techniques, acceptance-oriented practices, attachment perspectives, and skills-based methods so therapy is tailored to each person’s goals and life context.
How much clinical experience does the therapist have?
She brings 17 years of clinical experience to her practice and has worked with diverse presenting concerns throughout her career.
What credentials and location are listed for this provider?
The clinician holds the credential LCMHC with license details UT LCMHC 6831497-6004 and is based in Utah.
Are sessions available in other languages or to international clients?
Sessions are offered in English, and she does accept international clients for online work.
Which session formats are offered for appointments?
Appointments are conducted through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to provide several remote options for engagement.
How is pricing handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working together?
To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to the therapist’s availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

17+ years

Licensed

Utah

Languages

English

What Lani can help with

Lani Ete works with clients on stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, anger management, and depression.

How Lani approaches therapy

Lani's clinical approaches include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Existential Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, and Motivational Interviewing.

Experience and training

Lani is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor practicing in Utah, with 17 years of clinical experience.