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Dr. Melinda Lawless Coker, LMFT

  • Experience32 years
  • LocationFlorida
  • Focus areasADHD, Stress and Anxiety, and Addictions
  • Therapy approachesAttachment-Based Therapy and Client-Centered Therapy
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About Melinda

Dr. Melinda Lawless Coker brings more than three decades of clinical experience to her work and lists ADHD among her focus areas.

Background and approach

She draws on training as a licensed marriage and family therapist and a licensed psychologist in Florida to help people address stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, depression, bipolar symptoms, grief, relationship and intimacy concerns, and a wide range of related challenges.

Her background includes work across inpatient and outpatient settings, school counseling, drug treatment programs, drug court, and correctional environments. Her practice emphasizes relational and systems-based perspectives, using multigenerational family systems thinking alongside psychodramatic and sociometric methods to explore how relationships shape emotional life.

She also integrates approaches such as attachment-focused work, client-centered listening, cognitive-behavioral strategies, and elements of dialectical and existential therapies to tailor care to each person's needs. Dr.

Coker values clear boundaries, identifying emotional needs, and helping clients develop practical coping and decision-making skills. She welcomes questions and aims to create therapy that is directly useful and relevant to each individual.

How relational and evidence-based approaches translate to online care

Dr. Coker commonly weaves attachment-based work and cognitive behavioral therapy into her practice. Attachment-based therapy explores how early and current relationships shape emotional patterns and helps people build more supported ways of relating; it can be useful for intimacy issues, attachment concerns, and many relationship struggles. Cognitive behavioral therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns and developing practical skills to reduce anxiety, manage mood, and change reactions to stress.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and what feels most relevant, adapting methods over time so the work matches each person’s needs rather than following a single fixed model.

Online therapy here is offered through several formats including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which can make scheduling more flexible and allow continuity of care from different locations. These options support access to licensed professionals and allow therapeutic work to proceed around life obligations, travel, or other logistical constraints.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist commonly address?
Dr. Coker works with a broad set of issues including stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, depression, bipolar symptoms, grief, relationship and intimacy difficulties, ADHD, and related areas such as self-esteem and career challenges.
How would you describe the therapeutic style and approach?
Her work blends relational, systems-based thinking with psychodramatic techniques and a client-centered stance, while also drawing on CBT, DBT, and existential perspectives to meet different needs.
What is her clinical experience background?
She has practiced psychotherapy for 32 years in diverse settings including inpatient drug treatment, outpatient care, high school counseling, county programs, women's prison, and drug court treatment.
What credentials and location are on record?
She is an LMFT and holds Florida license numbers FL LMFT MT1504 and FL Psychologist PY7080, and she is based in Florida.
Does she work with clients who live outside the United States?
Yes, international clients are accepted and she conducts sessions with clients who live in other countries as part of her practice.
Which session formats are offered for online work?
Sessions are available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to accommodate different preferences and needs.
How are fees and payment structured?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What steps are involved in beginning therapy with her?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuse

Also works with

LGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

32+ years

Licensed

Florida, Florida

Languages

English

What Melinda can help with

Dr. Melinda Lawless Coker works with clients on stress and anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, and trauma and abuse.

How Melinda approaches therapy

Melinda's clinical approaches include Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Existential Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, and Trauma-Focused Therapy.

Experience and training

Melinda is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Florida, with 32 years of clinical experience.