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Paula Alexander, LPC

  • Experience26 years
  • LocationNew Jersey
  • Focus areasADHD, Stress and Anxiety, and Addictions
  • Therapy approachesAcceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Client-Centered Therapy
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About Paula

Paula Alexander is an LPC who emphasizes collaborative, evidence-informed care grounded in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, client-centered approaches, and cognitive behavioral techniques.

Background and approach

She draws on 26 years of clinical experience in New Jersey to help people manage stress, anxiety, mood disorders, and a range of addictive and compulsive behaviors. Her practice focuses on practical strategies and values-based goals so clients can make meaningful changes in day-to-day life.

Her work addresses trauma and abuse, anger, grief, intimacy and relationship concerns, eating and sleeping difficulties, and challenges tied to career and parenting. Paula also supports people dealing with ADHD, bipolar disorder, depression, and compassion fatigue, and she offers help for more specific problems such as codependency, process addictions, impulsivity, panic, and phobias.

She creates a respectful, nonjudgmental space where clients’ thoughts and feelings are explored and where concrete skills are taught to support coping and growth. Paula guides clients to identify values, build coping skills, and experiment with new behaviors tailored to their goals.

Sessions are available through multiple online formats, and she works with each person to shape a realistic plan that fits their circumstances and preferences.

Therapeutic approaches and online care



Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying personal values and learning to accept difficult thoughts and feelings while committing to behaviors that reflect what matters most. This approach can help people manage anxiety, depression, and patterns that interfere with living a meaningful life. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) targets unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns by teaching practical tools for coping, problem solving, and reducing symptoms such as panic, phobias, or low mood.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Paula works with clients to assess needs, goals, and preferences and then tailors techniques from ACT, client-centered therapy, and CBT to fit each person. This collaborative planning helps ensure the focus of sessions aligns with the client’s priorities and evolves as progress is made.

Online therapy offers flexible options to fit different schedules and comfort levels, including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. These formats make it easier to access consistent support from a licensed professional without travel, and they allow for continued care when life circumstances change. Paula uses these methods to maintain momentum between sessions and adapt treatment to what works best for each client.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Paula commonly address?
She works with a broad range of issues including stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, anger, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating and sleeping problems, and ADHD among other areas.
What therapeutic style can I expect in sessions?
Her approach blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, client-centered techniques, and cognitive behavioral strategies to combine values exploration with practical skill building.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Paula brings 26 years of professional experience working with people facing mood disorders, behavioral health challenges, and life transitions.
Where is Paula licensed and based?
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in New Jersey and holds the license number NJ LPC 37PC00632600.
Are services available in other languages or internationally?
Sessions are offered in English, and she is not accepting international clients at this time.
Which session formats are offered online?
Clients can meet through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on preference and scheduling.
How are costs and billing handled?
Fees vary with location and therapist availability, and sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What is the process to begin working together?
To get started, choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

CodependencyDrug and alcohol addictionFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameImpulsivityPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Social anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Experience

26+ years

Licensed

New Jersey

Languages

English

What Paula can help with

Paula Alexander works with clients on stress and anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, anger management, and coaching.

Paula works with clients with stress and anxiety, coping with addictions, trauma and abuse, and anger management.

How Paula approaches therapy

Paula's clinical approaches include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Client-Centered Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).

Experience and training

Paula is a Licensed Professional Counselor practicing in New Jersey.