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LMFT

Sheri Pate, LMFT

  • Experience16 years
  • LocationCalifornia
  • Focus areasADHD, Stress and Anxiety, and Anger
  • Therapy approachesAttachment-Based Therapy and Client-Centered Therapy
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About Sheri

Sheri Pate is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who centers her work around mindfulness and client-centered care. She emphasizes accepting clients where they are while teaching practical skills that reduce stress and calm uncomfortable thoughts and emotions.

Background and approach

Sheri has integrated mindfulness, guided imagery, and visualization into her practice since 2002, helping people develop clearer thinking and new ways of managing challenges and relationships. Her approach blends attachment-based ideas, cognitive behavioral tools, and emotionally-focused perspectives to explore strengths and life patterns.

Sheri draws on her academic background in psychology and counseling to guide clients toward greater enjoyment and satisfaction. She also uses mind-body practices - including meditation and relaxation techniques - developed through leading groups and workshops across the country to support personal growth, performance, and overall coping.

Sheri values collaboration and empowerment, helping clients recognize their unique gifts and move toward change at a comfortable pace. She created a simple awareness tool called Witness Cards to make it easier for people to identify areas for growth and then uses tailored exercises to build confidence and meaningful progress.

Integrating Attachment, CBT, and Mindfulness Online

Attachment-based work helps people explore patterns in close relationships and how early connections shape current ways of relating; it can be useful for clients noticing repeating relationship wounds or attachment concerns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce symptoms like anxiety, depression, and stress. Mindfulness practices teach present-moment awareness through breathing, guided imagery, and relaxation exercises that support emotional regulation and stress management.

Finding the right combination of approaches is part of the therapeutic process. Sheri collaborates with clients to identify goals and preferences, then adjusts techniques so the work fits each person’s needs rather than imposing a single method. This collaborative stance helps clarify what feels most effective and sustainable over time.

Online therapy with Sheri is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, which makes it easier to fit sessions into busy schedules and from different locations within California. These formats allow for flexible scheduling and ongoing skill practice between sessions, supporting continuity of care and practical application of mindfulness and CBT tools in everyday life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Sheri commonly address?
Sheri works with a broad range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar, ADHD, trauma and grief, as well as relationship and intimacy-related issues.
What therapy styles inform her work?
Her practice draws from attachment-based approaches, client-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, emotionally-focused techniques, and mindfulness to create a tailored, skills-oriented process.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She brings 16 years of professional experience to her work, with a longstanding emphasis on mindfulness, visualization, and mind-body practices dating back to 2002.
What are her credentials and where is she located?
Sheri is an LMFT licensed in California with license number CA LMFT 45065 and practices from California.
Does she offer services in other languages or to international clients?
Sessions are offered in English and she is not currently accepting international clients.
Which session formats are available?
Clients can work with her through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on their preferences and scheduling needs.
How are fees and billing handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What steps are involved in beginning therapy?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

16+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

What Sheri can help with

Sheri Pate works with clients on stress and anxiety, anger management, self esteem, coping with life changes, and ADHD.

How Sheri approaches therapy

Sheri's clinical approaches include Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy, and Somatic Therapy.

Experience and training

Sheri is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in California, with 16 years of clinical experience.